Friday, May 10, 2013

BACK STABBERS

I have often been amazed by how often I have witnessed both myself and others being stabbed in the back by ones whom we have been nothing  but good to. And more times than not they choose to do this over some kind of monetary award. Nothing much surprises me any more as to what some folks will do to others for money. I still  think it is such a shame that one will choose money over the option of being nice to someone, especially those that they know. If you don't believe me I would suggest you tune in to last week's episode of "Survivor" the reality show on CBS network. In that episode I watched as Brenda chose to give up her individual reward so the rest of the "tribe" would instead get the reward. A very nice thing to do for someone else I must say. And then immediately after she did the honorable thing for the others 3 of them decided to "blindside" her and get her voted off the show. Now, I do realize this is a "game" and 1 million dollars is at stake for the winner, so you may say she was just dumb to give the reward up. But on a deeper level I watched her crying after she was voted out and she had a very legitimate reason for being upset. The ones she went out of her way to be nice to had stuck a dagger in her back and she was very hurt. The sad  thing though is that I've either been treated that way over a lot less than 1 million dollars and I've seen others back stabbed by so called friends for a few dollars. It's a sad state of events when people take advantage of others for any reason but to me it is especially sad when it happens over money. I try not to become too jaded as I realize there are a lot more honest caring people in the world than there are those who are"backstabbers", but it is very disheartening when I see things like that happen to good people. Thankfully I've been able to rise above all the times I've been used and abused and my hope is that you are able to do the same if and when something like that happens to yourself. And believe me, if you are a kind, caring, and giving person the chances are you will be taken advantage of a time or two. But hang in there and remember that it will only be an opportunity for you to grow into an even more caring person. As a matter of fact I have come to the realization that those who have used me in any way are the losers, and not me! As long as one can forgive others for their heartless acts then in my opinion they are truly the "winners". If you can today,  try and forgive anyone who has done you wrong and reach out and do a little something nice for someone just because you want to. And if you do that , I do believe that it will make your day a lot brighter also. Hey, I love all you folks, even those who haven't treated me exactly nice! So take care my friends and to all the beautiful mothers out there I want to wish you the best Mother's Day ever! Me, being a guy, I will not ever fully comprehend the unconditional love a mother has for her kids and all the sacrifices they make for them.  But I dare say that has to be the "Hardest" job in the world--being a good mom- so to all of you I can only say Bless your hearts! And those of you reading this who have a mother who is still alive please go out of your way to do something extraordinary for your mom this sunday! And remember, she is the only mother you will ever have! And to my dearly departed mom who passed away the day after the terrorist attacks on 9/11 2001 I want you to know that you were always the best mom ever! I can't say for sure what happens to any of us when we make our transition from human back to spirit but I do believe my mom is listening from within my own heart. God bless you mom You are the best! To all of you folks I sincerely wish you and yours the very best of everything  now and forever! "HUGS"


4 comments:

Christopher Dos Santos said...

Namaste Brother Ron;

Why did you find yourself embroiled in a "bad abusive" situation? What did you learn from the experience? Why did you draw the experience into your reality?

Whenever "bad" things happen and I find my kindness is being abused, or that I have been taken advantage of, I always ask myself the aforementioned three questions.

The first question lets me clear my head of nonsense so that I can really see the prevailing issues. The second question is always a reminder that every lesson in life carries rewards in the form of self discovery. The third question gently reminds me that I am the causation of all the drama in my life.

These three steps encourage me to maintain perspective, equilibrium, and most importantly compassion.

In Lak' ech Brother Ron; we seek truth... we invite experience... we accept all experiential reality as a Godly dance of energy...

captron52 said...

Hi Christopher. Thanks for stopping by. I totally agree with the 3 steps you mention. I really try to do that myself and most of the time I succeed quickly while at other times it takes me longer to accept the truth of the matter. But you are so right in that each moment of "trouble" is an opportunity for us to grow into a better human being. And as such I really have had quite a few opportunities whether I was ready for them or not! As always, the best to you and yours my friend.

The Truth Seeker's Guide said...

Hey Ron.
Its a very fine line between always being on guard and letting that guard down.
Fortunately, there are still plenty of good and decent people (like yourself) out there.
At least we can take some comfort from that!
Take care my friend and all the best.
Carl (The 'Guide)

captron52 said...

You are so right Carl. And thank you for the kind words. I'm just trying to be a small part of the solutions this planet needs. Sure wish I could do more but at least I know I'm trying. And folks like you are also doing their share so I will always have hope. Hope your health has been much improved lately. Take it easy my friend and thanks again.